00:00.00 goodgriefjournals Action. 00:01.00 Karli All right? Welcome back commuters. We are so glad you're here listening to another episode of the crip commute podcast whether you are folding that giant mountain of laundry which hey guess what I folded all of my laundry. 00:12.16 goodgriefjournals Um, same. 00:19.87 Karli On the actual day that I put it in the washer and the fact that I did that this week is I Just don't even know who I am it's um, unreal. But anyway whether you're folding that laundry or you're doing the dishes. Whatever you're doing. We are happy that you're here. 00:22.80 goodgriefjournals Um, what cannot relate. 00:38.90 Karli And part of our mom club. We're excited because today's episode is our fall bucket list. We thought it would be fun just to kind of I don't know sit down and have a girl chat just about like things that we want to do this fall and and it maybe give you guys some ideas then we'll let you guys share some on our Instagram so we can get even more ideas. 00:46.90 goodgriefjournals Um, yes. 00:57.24 goodgriefjournals Um, yeah I'm ready. Um, well yeah. 00:57.96 Karli But I'm so excited for fall I I Just love fall so much just I really am and it's been so hot lately. So I'm just like give me fall and just the fall vibes. Not even just like with the weather but just there's just something to me about fall. 01:10.35 goodgriefjournals I just ready for like cozy, you know we had some rain today and it was just so cozy like it was like oh it finally feels like fall because it's literally been like 115 here and it's just too hot like. 01:16.73 Karli Yeah. 01:21.25 Karli Yeah, yeah. Oh man Sadie that is way too high. Oh yeah, for else. Oh man. 01:29.94 goodgriefjournals I am done? Yeah so I am ready for some cooler crispier weather and I want to start going outside in the morning again before six a am because it's so freaking hot. 01:45.20 Karli Yeah, because if it's that hot out there like we still go outside so I'm like yeah, it's not a big deal I mean we're hot but it's manageable but man not in a hundred fifty yikes well we each have a couple of things on our list. Do you want to start us off. 01:51.86 goodgriefjournals Um, yeah, yeah, wolf Yeah, and then I yeah do you want to just go like every other and um I did look up a few different little like. 02:04.13 Karli Yeah I think that'd be great. 02:08.72 goodgriefjournals Bucket lists on Pinterest if we have a little extra time that we can talk about too things that could be fun. So one of my fall bucket list items is to read date leave because I've been really into reading lately. And yeah, ah right now I am. 02:12.50 Karli Oh perfect. 02:21.31 Karli I was going to say you have been reading a bunch more So what are you reading. 02:28.71 goodgriefjournals Reading a business book. It's called a $100000000 offer and yeah, it's very interesting I really actually really like it. Um, but I've been really into romance novels like recently like I've read like 6 of them in the last month so yeah 02:33.20 Karli Oh. 02:48.12 Karli That's amazing. 02:48.40 goodgriefjournals Yeah, um, but yeah I just read kind of whatever whatever stands out and then yeah, um, but I really want to get a week long streak in the Apple like Apple Books app I have lost it at three days every single time. So I'm trying to get to the whole week. 02:51.62 Karli Yeah, when. 03:03.24 Karli Oh ah, oh you've got it this week this week next week you are gonna start the podcast and make the big announcement the you n 7 days so we're all holding you accountable right here. 03:08.19 goodgriefjournals Yeah I got it. Yeah that I made it seven days yes exactly thank you thank you I appreciate um I read either during nap time or. 03:20.42 Karli When do you normally read. 03:26.46 goodgriefjournals Like right before we go to bed like we'll watch a show together like Parker and I will watch a show and then like he either like plays video games or whatever or like watches his own show and then I read. Yeah so. 03:27.74 Karli Okay, okay. 03:37.58 Karli Yeah, yeah, it's like your little time that's fun all right the first one on my list is. 03:43.90 goodgriefjournals Yeah I Really like it. 03:48.82 Karli Corn bellies. So for those, not local to Utah. It's just like a little fall festival type thing that goes for the month of October and they have like haunted houses and corn mazes. They've got lots of fall treats and just fun little booths and things to do for like the kids. So every year I have gone every year for oh my goodness I think my first year was 2013 and it was right after I met Kyle me and my friends planned to go and it was. 04:17.80 goodgriefjournals Holy moly. 04:26.64 Karli Like the first week that ky and I kind of started talking and I remember texting him like hey like me and some of my friends are going to cornbellies if you want to come and he was like well I work and he works in bountiful and cornbellies is out in like Lee Highh area and for those of you don't know it was gonna take him like. Thirty five ish minutes to get there and he had gone. He was getting off work at 7 he worked at a bank I think the bank closed a 7 so he was gonna have to like kind of get everything and then head out and I was like this guy is not going to drive all this way like I just met this guy. He's not going to do it. There's no way we can carpool. 05:01.97 goodgriefjournals Um. 05:05.58 Karli I had met so many guys that would not drive very far and that drives me nuts like if a guy won't drive for you I'm like Boo dump is but but anyway so um, so anyway I am on my way to corn bellies. 05:16.80 goodgriefjournals Um, is a. 05:23.51 Karli And I get a text and he was like hey I think I'm still gonna be able to make it are you? Oh no, we were there. That's right, we were already there and he was like hey I think I should be able to make it but I won't get there till like eight thirty like will that work for you and I was like wait a second like this guy's actually gonna drive all this way. To hang out with me sweet and I was like yeah come on by so we like drove all the way out there and then we ended up like hanging out the whole time and like the 2 of us kind of like went off and hung out and that's like 1 of my first like favorite memories that kind of have now you know, kind of. 05:50.16 goodgriefjournals Um, did you kiss him that night so oh my gosh. 06:00.98 Karli Over a month to kiss. Yeah because Kyle has this theory that the longer you wait to kiss the longer. Your relationship will last I don't know why he has this theory but very. 06:11.20 goodgriefjournals Well, that's terrifying because parker kissed me on the first date. 06:19.21 Karli I know it's so funny. He's always like well if yeah, kiss him really quick. It'll probably end but it doesn't always work. But anyway so um, but yeah, so we have gone back every single year with our friends and so that's like a really fun thing that we love to do. But this year I bought a season pass and I'm going to take Boston and we're just gonna like go a couple times and just let him like hang out I think it'll be really fun for him to do and his friend has a pass so we're gonna do that I'm really excited about it. Yeah. 06:44.57 goodgriefjournals Yeah, oh that's cute I like that. Okay, another thing on my fall bucket list is to go on morning walks not necessarily every morning but more than I happen because like I said it's super hot here and in the fall it's actually like. 06:59.80 Karli Yeah. 07:03.47 goodgriefjournals In the morning. So and also I just love like when you bundle up in the morning to like go on a walk I don't know what it is I Just love that. So I really want to do that. 07:11.68 Karli Yeah, but is so I am not like if I have to put on multiple layers So like go out on a walk I'm like it I'll just stay inside like a jacket. Okay, okay, okay I could do that. Okay, yeah, gotcha. 07:16.78 goodgriefjournals Okay I should I should say it's like you put on a sweatshirt like a hoodie. Yeah and you go out like that that kind of bundle up, not like a parka I'm not doing that. Heck no. 07:30.67 Karli Yeah, yeah, I Just like oh you are you are great. Um, a another thing that I want to do is accord maze. There's like a giant um farm down the street from our house and they do a fun little Cor Maze that's actually pretty intense and kind of can be tricky and so. 07:34.48 goodgriefjournals Absolutely not. 07:50.56 Karli And want to go do that I mean it be fun even just like a date night because I don't know how Boston would do because it does get pretty cold. But I think that'll be fun. Yeah, we do that one too? Um, but because there's so much to do at Cornbellies. We end up normally like going walking around for a little bit with our hot chocolate getting way too cold and then. 07:52.29 goodgriefjournals Um, do you do the corn bellies corn maize. 08:10.11 Karli Like trying to get the quickest way out that we possibly can so. 08:12.15 goodgriefjournals Yeah, yeah, um, fun fact about the corn bellies corn maize. Ah when I worked at Boost Stability which is currently where Parker works Um, their building was across the street from where cornbellies is and my office cubicle. 08:19.79 Karli Yeah, yeah. 08:25.65 Karli Yeah. 08:29.79 goodgriefjournals Was like facing that window. So I watched them like plant the corn maize. Yeah yeah, one Yeah, this one? Okay, my next one is drink. 08:31.62 Karli Really, that's way cool. That's actually really cool thing to be able to say you could see that's awesome. 08:44.30 goodgriefjournals A lot of hot cocoa because I love hot chocolate like I don't know what it is but I Love hot chocolate always have and that just like feels folly and like cozy to me. So that's big on my list. 08:49.11 Karli Yeah. Yeah, Oh yeah, what is your favorite like type of hot chocolate. Do you like just plain hot chocolate or do you like put flavorings in it. 09:05.41 goodgriefjournals Ah, okay so I really like that is it Stefan's or Stevens I don't know whatever that is STEPH a n I do too because I know somebody named Stevens spelled that way. 09:11.24 Karli I don't know I always say Stevens but I'm probably wrong. Yeah. 09:19.58 goodgriefjournals Um, anyway I like that hot chocolate They have a like cinnamon flavor. It's like cinnamon sugar flavor. It's very delicious. It's not like spicy like a like peppermin tea. It's like cinnamon sugar. It's really emmy. Um, but I also the best. 09:23.34 Karli Oh. 09:30.33 Karli Um, yeah, ah, interesting. 09:37.79 goodgriefjournals Hot chocolate that I've ever had is from the Bishop's storehouse um it's like a cheap like church charity place if you don't know the bishop storehouses but you can get these like £25 bags for like $15 or something like that. 09:49.13 Karli Um, yeah. 09:56.66 goodgriefjournals And it is legitimately the best hot chocolate I've ever had in my entire life like so good. So just a shout out to the bishop storyhouse. But yeah. 10:00.61 Karli Oh Wow Oh interesting. Maybe i' have to try to try that. Ah, that's funny. Um, but my next one is I Want to go to a haunted House. We Normally just do well. We used to do like different haunted houses. But now the last couple of years. We've just gone to the cornbellies one because it just gets to be too hard to go to like multiple things when you have kids um because we when we go with our friends to cornbelles we live that leave the kids with a babysitter but we're gonna do the kind of house. 10:24.58 goodgriefjournals Um, okay yeah. 10:32.20 goodgriefjournals Okay. 10:37.57 Karli Corn bellies and it's like the part that I always like look forward to but also absolutely hate every second of the entire time. Ah like yes and no like I like it but ah. 10:41.16 goodgriefjournals Okay, do you like spooky things. Do you like scary. 10:56.16 Karli Like I like watching scary movies and I like going to haunted houses but also at the same time I'm like why am I putting myself through this. Why am I putting myself through this. Yeah, but you have to go with the right people we go with our friend sidney every single year. She is my absolute favorite person to go to a haunted house with. 11:00.57 goodgriefjournals Um I hate it here. Yeah. 11:15.58 Karli Because she is absolutely terrified and she a hundred percent shows it. So like you just put her there and they can all see the like terrified screams or hear the terrified screams see look on her face and so then they just like go after her and then I'm like okay cool. 11:19.75 goodgriefjournals Um, ah so said. 11:27.57 goodgriefjournals Um, yeah, cool. 11:33.95 Karli This is really fun. This is really fine I'm not going to freak out I'm not going to freak out so you all to find a friend like Sid and just put her group. Yeah, it's true. It's very oh a hundred percent true friend right there. But yeah. 11:39.76 goodgriefjournals Who will actually go. It's an impressive to me that she'll go because I hundred person that wouldn't I definitely would not go. That's a definite note for me I do not do hound in houses I don't do spooky. Um. 11:52.87 Karli You're like Nope that's funny. Okay, there you go. 11:56.63 goodgriefjournals Okay, my next thing is to plan Charlie's first birthday party also to plan a day going to do his first birthday party because if you don't know both my kids were born right around Christmas so I have four days before and five days after so birthdays are kind of hard. So. 12:05.22 Karli Ah. 12:09.98 Karli Oh yeah, that is hard way to go like being so on top of it though. 12:15.13 goodgriefjournals So I'm trying to do that. Yeah I'm just I Just really want their birthday their birthdays to be special. So I'm just trying to figure out when when will celebrate them because it's not like a matter of if it's like when because I just want them to know that like their birthday is important even if it's at a really. 12:21.44 Karli Yeah, yeah, yeah I like that? Yeah, but like I think I've told you yeah I think. 12:34.60 goodgriefjournals Pretty time of year. It's at a beautiful time of year. But it's sucky. 12:40.23 Karli Told you this like my birthday's ten days before Christmas and I absolutely love it because like my family still made sure that like my birthday was my birthday and like it was all about me and I still got to do fun things. But anytime I got to like have a birthday party. It was. 12:40.32 goodgriefjournals Yes. 12:46.59 goodgriefjournals Yeah. 12:56.48 Karli Around stuff with that time like we would go ice skating or we went to like I'd have go see lights on temple square with my friends or we would do these things that I loved because of Christmas but in the spirit of we're celebrating Carly and I always found that really special. So I think you'll be able to do it especially because you actively care. 12:57.44 goodgriefjournals In here. 13:07.49 goodgriefjournals Um, yeah. 13:13.46 goodgriefjournals Um, yeah, so you still have like friend parties. Okay, because that's like my biggest fear is that like we aren't going to be able to have friend parties because like I feel like. 13:16.56 Karli You're like trying to make sure that it's still still special. Oh a hundred percent yeah 13:28.94 goodgriefjournals Not having their friend party on their birthday is like not as important as like having the party you know, but like December is just so hard because people are so busy and so I don't want to like miss out on that for them because that's so sucky. 13:32.30 Karli Yeah, oh yeah. Yeah, but I think if you just like plan it ahead and it did it more at the beginning like even just like the first week of December and did it in like an afternoon. 13:47.52 goodgriefjournals Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, good to know good to know. Thank you appreciate that. 13:52.88 Karli You know before people have like work parties or family parties. It's like right after school they get to have like you know 2 hours with their friends to do whatever I think it should work. But yeah I had a friend party every single year. So yep's good. You're welcome I actually trying to think. 14:06.68 goodgriefjournals Yeah, we're planning Charlie's first 14:10.18 Karli Um, oh I was gonna ask you do you know what theme you're having. Are you gonna do a theme or that's part of planning. 14:10.29 goodgriefjournals No yeah I'll probably do a theme so for berkeley yeah for Berkeley I did once upon a time and did like a library theme and so I'm just trying to figure out what I want to do for Charlie because Berkeley loved books Charlie just like. 14:20.56 Karli Oh Q That's really clever. Yeah. 14:30.15 goodgriefjournals Likes people. He doesn't care like he's not like Berkeley where she like had things that like she clearly liked. He just is like happy to be here. He's just like so chill so we'll have to figure it out. Yeah yeah. 14:31.14 Karli Oh yeah, Okay, oh yeah, you'll figure it out that'll be fun all right? My next one is bake cookies. 14:47.76 goodgriefjournals Yes. 14:50.47 Karli I love cookies. Love love love cookies and Boston loves cookies wonder where you got that from but we have but I really I know I got a really easy recipe from Elise Hunter I'll have to post it. 14:54.84 goodgriefjournals And weird never would have thought. 15:06.89 Karli It's like 3 ingredients to make pumpkin chocolate chip cookies. They are so delicious. Yeah, like they're so good and they're way easy to make with kids because it's like 3 ingredients we threw it in there like I mixed it then boston mixed it. We like threw it on the pan and like baked it. 15:10.16 goodgriefjournals Um, oh yeah. 15:24.36 Karli So it was like a really good one for like toddlers because he only has such a short attentions fan you know, but he wants to stuff in. So it's a really fun 1 ought to share that link because way to go was a good one. 15:25.77 goodgriefjournals Um, yeah, yeah, yeah, that'll be fun. Yeah Thanks Elise. Um, okay, another one is to go trick or treating I never went trigger treating as a kid. Well we we did a trunk or treat. We did a trunker tree instead but like we just did a trunker tree like we did the ward trunker tree and that was it and like that's what no like we just never did and. 15:49.14 Karli Wait Why who? Ah, why did you not go trigger treating. 15:55.73 Karli Um, but you didn't you didn't do both whoa. Okay. 16:03.85 goodgriefjournals So like when we had Berkeley Parker was like oh well, we're going trick-ortreating and I was like why like we don't need to and then we went last year and it was so fun just watching her like go up to the door I mean she didn't say anything and she was so shy but she was stoked that people were giving her candy which is. 16:16.80 Karli Ah, yeah, oh yeah. 16:22.79 goodgriefjournals Terrifying if you're if I'm being honest, but but um, she loved it and it was just so fun. We went to like 3 houses and like that's all she needed you know, but I'm excited to do that again. I think that'll be fun. 16:25.82 Karli Ah, oh yeah. 16:32.80 Karli Yeah, that'll be so fun I'm still mind blown that you just did the trunk or treat that's crazy to me. 16:38.93 goodgriefjournals Yeah, we would do the trunk or tree and then get this. We would go home and it was like tradition to go to our basement turn. All the lights off and watch like a movie in the basement. So that people didn't know that we were home and so they couldn't stop at our house. 16:51.60 Karli Okay. 16:57.60 Karli Wait okay, the did the trunk or treat on Halloween oh interesting see like our ward always did and if you don't know a award just is like our church. It's just like the neighborhood like community goes with that. Yeah. 16:59.28 goodgriefjournals Yeah, will yeah, it's like a church like the congregation church congregation. 17:16.68 Karli Um, so anyway, our ward always did it like the Wednesday before Halloween and then you would like go the trunk or tree had like a little party and then you could like go trick or treating that's crazy. It's always so cool to see how people do it different. 17:25.69 goodgriefjournals Yeah I think I think it was just I think it was just so like we had like a quote unquote safe option for Trickor treating. But yeah I I don't think they do that anymore but all growing up That's like all I remember is going trunk or treating and. 17:33.91 Karli Yeah, makes sense. Yeah. 17:45.42 goodgriefjournals That was it. 17:46.18 Karli Yeah, that's crazy. That's funny. Um my next one is a scary show with friends. We do this every year I don't know what we're gonna watch this year so maybe you guys can send me some ideas normally Netflix has a show out. 18:02.14 goodgriefjournals Um, yeah. 18:04.50 Karli We watch like haunting on hill house we watch that and we'd like get together every Thursday and like try and keep up on the episodes. So we normally try and do like a scary tv show but I haven't heard of anything coming out because we like to like meet up with them like every week on like. 18:15.16 goodgriefjournals Um, interesting. 18:18.81 goodgriefjournals Yeah, that's fun. 18:22.40 Karli Ah, certain time and it's just like fun that we do it every week. So I don't know if we'll be able to do that again, but or either find a tv show or at least watch a scary movie and then invite Sydney again. So she can scream and we can laugh. Ah. 18:32.44 goodgriefjournals So it's yeah so um, when I was in high school me and my best friend Rachel we got into this like scary movie kick and we would just go to the library and rent like scary movies and this is like right around the time that Netflix like became like. 18:44.10 Karli Ah. 18:49.40 goodgriefjournals What it is today where it was like you didn't like order something online and get a Dvd in the mail you like stream it and back then they had some weirdo stuff like their stuff was just like they had like the main stuff but then their breast was like all indie stuff and is so weird. But. 18:50.43 Karli Um, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah. 19:08.53 goodgriefjournals We watched one called the haunting of Molly Hartley and also the shortcut those 2 movies have been ingrained into my brain and they are terrifying like I don't think they're actually skin yes, the shortcut. 19:14.53 Karli Owl. 19:20.94 Karli Okay, wait the short cut and the Molly or the the Molly the haunting I'm writing these down right now. 19:27.86 goodgriefjournals The the haunting of Molly Hartley and I am telling you the twists and turns that you're gonna take in these movies are next level like I we literally it was like. 19:41.33 Karli Really. 19:45.98 goodgriefjournals In the middle of the day because we can't handle watching them at night because we're too scared so me Rachel and then my older brother would sit on the couch just with like blankets and we would like be like shaking because we were so terrified. But yeah, we we it was like a ah thing. So. 19:50.41 Karli Um, yeah. 20:00.79 Karli Ah, okay, they're on the list. Thanks for the recommendation because yeah, we were looking for some so okay I love it. Yeah, maybe it's like where do you. 20:04.63 goodgriefjournals Those are two good scary movies thrillers. Yeah, hopefully you can find him. 20:17.97 Karli Actually did you know there is a place you can still rent Dvds in bountiful. It's like an actual yes we love top hat. Yeah, it's still there so whenever we're like we need to run a movie. We what. 20:20.29 goodgriefjournals Is it top hat video Ha Ha I Used to go there with my cousins. Yep yeah, oh my gosh Sorry I got a flash flood warning on my phone which is connected to my hairphones and it just like you know like. 20:37.30 Karli Oh my gosh. Oh here. Okay I'm I though I thought you were about to be like oh curly I'm not recording. 20:40.40 goodgriefjournals The National like the oh terrifying. Well so sorry if that was scream. No no. 20:54.65 Karli I would have been like oh no, but you know Flash Flood Whatever not a big deal. Oh. 21:00.46 goodgriefjournals Hold on now my my headphones are playing our podcast. What is what is happening I like can't turn it. Ah okay lens. 21:14.98 Karli Ah, sure did you get it? Okay, that's crazy though. 21:17.44 goodgriefjournals Oh I think I got it okay hold on quite that. Okay I think I got it. There's nothing playing in my ears. Ah yes I am safe. 21:28.38 Karli Okay, perfect just you I will be recorded. You are safe in your house from the flash floods. We are good. Ah. 21:36.57 goodgriefjournals Say from the flash flood. There's no crazy voices in my head telling our stories. Okay, yeah, so anyhow I think it's my turn. Ah yeah, okay, my next one is to pick out Pumpkins which is funny because we just did that. 21:45.43 Karli Ah, yeah. 21:55.62 goodgriefjournals We picked out baby pumpkins at the store. Yeah because we don't have like pumpkin patches here I think it's just too hot for pumpkins. Um, but yeah, we picked out the baby pumpkins of the store in Berkeley was like this is my baby pumpkin and she loves it. Sam. 21:57.70 Karli Um, are you dead? Oh okay, yeah oh oh that's so sweet. That's so cute. Well my next one goes right along with that we I want to paint pumpkins so same thing like we like to go to a pumpkin patch though in Utah and get a pumpkin and then we're gonna come back and let Boston paint it. So just a fun little idea. 22:26.31 goodgriefjournals Kiute a love that my next one This is like a family tradition but I want to pick pomegranates. My family has pomegranate bushes in our yard. Yep and like. 22:37.21 Karli Ah, really Wow I didn't even know just people had that I don't know if that was a dumb comment but like let's go. 22:44.68 goodgriefjournals Yep, it's not dumb. But yeah, we have pomegranate bushes in our yard and my dad and grandpa have like an orchard of pomegranates and every year we pick them and shell them and make jelly and. Pomegranate salad. Yep. 23:02.97 Karli Really Oh interesting, interesting there You go? let's cool and know. Um, ah oh my next one really I kind of already said but it's just like go to a pumpkin patch I Just think pumpkin patches are so fun. 23:05.36 goodgriefjournals Yeah, yeah, good time. 23:13.92 goodgriefjournals Um, oh yeah, yeah, they're so cute and uah has so many. That's 1 thing. Yeah that I do miss? Yeah, um. 23:19.50 Karli So they really do and there's some really fun ones. So yeah, we've been doing that the last couple years and it's been fun. So. 23:28.60 goodgriefjournals This is a family tradition that is like mine and parker's little family tradition. Um, every like big holiday on the first of the month like leading up to that holiday some like character so like for this one for Halloween it's going to be the great pumpkin from Charlie Brown 23:32.37 Karli Oh. 23:39.15 Karli Yeah. 23:48.60 goodgriefjournals Great pumpkin is going to bring spooky pajamas and and then they can wear them like throughout the month and then like in December Mrs Clause brings them on the first of the month so they can wear their Christmas jams and then Easter the easter chicken comes and brings them easter pajamas. So. 23:53.60 Karli Um, all cue. Yeah. 24:07.40 goodgriefjournals This one is get spooky jams from the great pumpkin and watch the great pumpkin of Charlie Brown movie 24:16.23 Karli That's such a fun idea I Love that that's like something you can easily like add in to like make such a difference for kids like they would eat that up. That's so cute I Love that. 24:16.95 goodgriefjournals Thanks yeah, that's fun. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's fun I Really like it. 24:30.76 Karli All right? My other one is Sunday drives in the mountains when you live in Utah the mountains are so pretty they really are just like the changing leaves when you go at that like perfect time. So every fall time when those leaves start to change Kyle and I go on a Sunday drive. We just like put on some. 24:35.62 goodgriefjournals Um, it's so beautiful. 24:43.27 goodgriefjournals Ah, hello. 24:50.54 Karli Chill fall music and just like drive up the Canyon We like get out walk around for a little bit and then we just drive back but I love it A big Contonwood Canyon So my family has a cabin up there. So we just like normally like go up there sometimes we'll go to the cabin other times we just like walk around solitude. 24:52.55 goodgriefjournals Um, which candy. Do you guys really go to. Okay, honestly. 25:09.74 Karli Yeah, or but yeah, so we like it. 25:10.13 goodgriefjournals Solitude, yeah yeah, so if you're new to Utah big cottonwood canyons. Beautiful little cottonwood canyons. Beautiful ah pleasant American Fork Canyon is beautiful. Provo Canyon is beautiful. 25:22.48 Karli Yeah Provo Canyon it's like honestly you just can't go wrong? yeah. 25:26.24 goodgriefjournals Like literally any yeah there. It's well and like all of them have like paved roads so you can drive up drive through and it's just so pretty. It's so pretty Okay, the next one on my list is to make potion drink which is just homemade root gear with like dry ice. 25:33.56 Karli Yes, yeah, so we love it. 25:46.19 goodgriefjournals Then it has like the witches potion. 25:47.43 Karli Oh that's so fun I remember like a mom did that in one of our like Halloween parties in elementary school and we all thought it was the coolest thing so your kids are gonna love that. 25:59.19 goodgriefjournals Um, yeah I think Berkeley's going to freak out but I love it. Yep. 26:03.77 Karli Just like eat it up. Yeah, all right? Another one of mine is I really want to host a halloween party for Boston is friends so I hosted a easter party and he just. 26:14.48 goodgriefjournals That's cute. 26:20.80 Karli Loved it like he talked about that party for so many days before and a few days after the few days that I was actually with him till I got put in the hospital to have a baby but you just like constantly. He just like loves anytime I talk about his friends coming over. So I thought it'd be fun to do one in the spring. 26:30.50 goodgriefjournals Um, ever. 26:40.43 Karli And then one in the fall especially because they're at that point where they're not in school and so they don't get like a ton of places to wear their costume but they so still love to like have their costume. They get excited about it. So it's like well. 26:43.73 goodgriefjournals I had. 26:51.87 goodgriefjournals Um, yeah. 26:55.92 Karli I'm going to come up with a party. Another reason for all of his little friends to wear their costume and come over and have a little party and so I'm excited about that? Yeah, yeah, for sure. Yeah. 26:59.64 goodgriefjournals That's cute, well and just knowing Boston he just loves people. He just loves his friends so that'll be so cute for him. He will love that okay and then ah my next one this is kind of for my mom because my mom really likes. Stuff like this but um and we live in her house so I was going to make it it upstairs in her area but make a gratitude treat. Gratitude tree to put like grateful leaves on you know, like little paper leaves where you like right which're grateful on stick it on I think that'll be really fun and it'll be really cute to hear what the little kids have to say that they're grateful for. 27:28.17 Karli Um, yeah. 27:35.47 Karli Yeah I I've seen this idea and I wanted to do it. But I'd kind of forgotten until you brought it up so I am a hundred percent going to do that too because I think it's it's such a fun and like easy way to like stay grateful. 27:36.95 goodgriefjournals And just love that. 27:43.90 goodgriefjournals Sweet. 27:53.32 goodgriefjournals Um, yeah, yeah, get your last one. 27:54.40 Karli But also like I don't know I just think it's fun I yeah I'm excited to do that all right? My best 1 is be more intentional with my outfits. So I love clothes. I love buying clothes I love having a bunch of clothes. But lately I feel like I've been just like having the same few things that are a little higher quality and just like a little simpler like I I don't know if I just am not loving the trends right now or. 28:18.37 goodgriefjournals Um, yeah. 28:26.72 Karli Some of my tastes are just changing but I love fall clothes. But I'm like I don't want to just go crazy. Not that I normally go crazy but I really will just like buy a bunch of stuff and like it's just like a hobby of mine. Um, so this year I think I want to try just buying a little more. 28:32.68 goodgriefjournals And nice. 28:45.25 Karli Fewer items maybe nicer quality things that I can like wear for a long time and just be really picky about what I'm going to buy So I'm excited to see how I but we'll see yeah. 28:50.80 goodgriefjournals Um, yeah, yeah I like that. Yeah, my last one is to eat pumpkin pie and I think that'll be pretty easy because Pumpkin pie is usually by the plenty but also. 29:03.45 Karli Yeah. 29:07.56 goodgriefjournals My family has pie night for the day before Thanksgiving where we all bring our pies instead of bringing them to Thanksgiving dinner because they never get eaten because you're all full and so we eat we have pie night and that's where I'll eat my pumpkin pie. 29:15.37 Karli Um, yeah. 29:23.27 Karli Yeah, that's so funny because Kyle's family does that but like his mom's family so because there's 10 of those siblings. So it's really hard to gather everybody for yeah. 29:29.18 goodgriefjournals Um, yeah, holy moly. 29:38.50 Karli Everybody for Thanksgiving so a couple days before Thanksgiving they do pie night and every day like brings a pie and that's like their thanksgiving but that's what I never heard of another family doing that so there you go. It's like I'm sure there are. But yeah. 29:48.65 goodgriefjournals It must be a big family thing because my dad has 8 siblings and so and that's how we get together for Thanksgiving so you got to have a big family. Yeah, okay oh I was going to pull up just a couple from fall bucket lists. 29:56.11 Karli Yeah, that's it there you go? Yeah, it's fun. 30:07.85 goodgriefjournals From the pinterest. Ok um, oh this is a good one eat Halloween Oreos I Love the Halloween Oreos I don't know what I don't know what it is but like the orange ones are just always better. Why I don't know. Um, oh this one's fun to try a new soup recipe. 30:08.70 Karli Oh this. 30:16.18 Karli Ah I Just love Oreos They really are so good. 30:26.85 Karli That is a good idea if I actually cared to cook but say of Kyle do it who. 30:26.97 goodgriefjournals Kind of fun. Yeah, same park I'll make Parker try a new soup recipe. Um, okay, here's a this is question um, eat all the candy corn. Do you like candy cornn you do. 30:43.45 Karli Oh I love candy corn. Love it I do I actually it's so funny. Ah boss and I were at the store yesterday and I saw it out and I almost bought it and then I was like no I'm gonna wait a little bit but wait till october. 30:46.30 goodgriefjournals Think it tastes like plastic. 30:56.80 goodgriefjournals Oh that's funny. Okay, let's see what else is there. There's um, make carammel apples. That's a good one. That's very folly. They had the Carmel apples out at Disneyland and I really wanted to get 1 but I never did. 31:01.80 Karli So. 31:06.29 Karli That is oh yeah. 31:13.50 goodgriefjournals Um, oh speaking of Carmel Apples I saw ah Instagram reel where somebody just like cut Apple slices and then they like laid them out on a like cookie sheet and then they like drizzled ah Carmel all over them and then like put the topics on top so that it's not as messy. 31:25.30 Karli Ah, oh that's a good idea. Yeah, that's like a way better idea. Yeah, that's really sorry, just dip in the. 31:31.59 goodgriefjournals But like you still get the caramelen. Yeah, why did why worse people app carmelling the whole Apple what what is that? But yeah I thought that was a good idea. Um, let's see. 31:42.25 Karli Yeah, yeah. 31:48.99 Karli I was gonna say I found a couple one one where to go let's see go on a fall picnic date I was like that's a really cute idea that's like a way fun idea. Yeah, um oh Bunk bumpkin pumpkin bread. 31:56.43 goodgriefjournals Um, that's cute. Yeah, like that. Um. 32:06.65 goodgriefjournals Oh yummy I'd eat it. Um, oh here's a like autumn movies like beetle juice Hocus Pocus nightmare before christmas. 32:06.78 Karli Bake Pumpkin bread I Love Pumpkin bread I wouldn't bake it but I don't buy it. Yeah. 32:22.72 goodgriefjournals Corpse bride the adams family practical magic Harry Potter oh I saw a thing where said people did like a Harry Potter marathon during like the fall and I'm like that is very folly and I like that. 32:33.49 Karli Oh that's a good idea. Yeah, that is that is fun. Um I just saw another one friends giving I Love friends giving should um, a list. Yeah, like we do a friend's giving every year such. 32:40.81 goodgriefjournals Oh I love friendsgiving same. So do we? We actually have hosted friendsgiving for the last five years and it's just so fun like because like. 32:49.89 Karli Such a good one. 32:54.43 Karli Yeah, it's yeah. 32:59.19 goodgriefjournals I feel like Thanksgiving is like definitely for your family but like friendsgiving you get to like hang out with your friends eat yummy food and it's just a good time I love friendsgivingy. Yep yeah, figure that up. 33:06.21 Karli Yeah, yeah, somehow on our friends giving we started this tradition of telling our absolute worst date stories. 33:18.55 goodgriefjournals Um, yes. 33:19.66 Karli And we've been doing this for I mean yeah, probably like 7 years now I think we did it the second year Kyle and I were married and we still tell the same stories every year but every year we still look forward to the same story because yeah, we all die laughing like they're so funny. So. 33:28.31 goodgriefjournals Um, they're still funny. 33:36.80 goodgriefjournals Um, we definitely need to have. 33:39.30 Karli Host of friends giving talk about your worst dates and it'll be amazing. Maybe we can do like a worst dates episode. Yeah, we can do it. We can do it in honor of my friends giving. Ah. 33:45.55 goodgriefjournals Oh we need. We need a worst dates episode for sure because I have a lot of them I have a lot. Yes, we'll do we'll do um mom clubs giving and we'll share were states. 33:59.98 Karli Um, okay, let's do it all right now that's amazing can well I think those are like really good ideas. Yeah. 34:04.48 goodgriefjournals Perfect. Yeah I think that's good. Yeah, um, if you have any ideas for fall bucket lists definitely comment on our Instagram posts and tell us your fall bucket list so that we can all have them and share them. Um and don't forget. 34:15.69 Karli Yes, here. 34:22.28 goodgriefjournals Find us on Instagram at the at crib commute podcast and then we have a big ask for you today if you enjoyed this episode or have enjoyed any of our episodes. Please please, please go and rate and review. It's very easy all you have to do is click the 5 stars if you want to leave a comment. You can. Um, on Spotify all you have to do is click. The 5 stars. Um, it's really helpful for us. That's how we're able to grow our mom club and um, so we just really appreciate it. 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